Intimacy

Matryoshka dolls

© Sasha Bauer
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surgut-novotravnoe village- st.petersburg, september 2012\October2012, our reflections in the mirrors

Matryoshka dolls, photo essay by Sasha Bauer

I have asked my mother to tell me about the similarities and differences she sees in me, her and my grandmother. I have learnt a lot about three of us from what she told me. When I have matched mother’s comments to the photos of our ways of life I have suddenly realised that my project turned into a search for similarities and differences, and that it is not so much about the answer, but about the search itself.

It is hard to say now why I have chosen to photographically present the story about my grandmother, mother and myself. I live away from my family and despite of our regular and warm communication, at some point I stopped feeling the connection with them. I started noticing that my life is quite different from the ones of my mother and grandmother. But then I remembered that there is at least one thing we have in common: all three of us left our parent’s home at about the same age.

My grandmother lives in the remote village that my mother left for a new life in the city. My mother lives in the small city that I left for a different life in the big city. Both my mother’s and grandmother’s husbands passed away untimely and their children grew up and left.

Most of us have fears of repeating the life of our parents. We don’t want to be like them. I felt some sort of an excitement when I saw how much my mother and grandmother have in common. Then I got really interested in how honest I can be with myself when I compare my life to theirs…

Since this project turned out to be very personal it became hard for me to have a logical analysis over the photographed material. For this reason I asked other people to give me a feedback on what they see in this work:

You are everywhere there. It looks like you looking for your own traits in those people — in your mother and grandmother — to be exact, you are looking for what actually connects you all. Also I see the story of life repeating itself. The lives of three women in one family are similar and you all have a lot in common.

© Ilya

Me: Are you afraid to be like mum?
Sister: I guess, I am. I started noticing that I act like mum sometimes, and it scared me. But then I realised that we are family and it is just inevitable. We are different at some things and similar at others — and it is normal.

This is about you through the prism of our family history.

© Mother

I enjoy looking at these photographs. Just like you, I have a strong emotional connection with each picture. I saw all that many times and it is still very interesting. These photos give me a chance to take a detached view: to look at things with stranger’s eyes.

© Sister

Me: Here is the auto portrait and plates

Yana (tutor): Good. Otherwise there was not much of you.

Me: There is a lot of me. This is all me.

Yana (tutor): Yes, yes. But only you and I know about it.

© Yana (tutor)

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Sasha Bauer
the authorSasha Bauer
Born at Surgut [1988], Russia. Based in St. Petersburg. In 2008 I have discovered passion for photography. Starting from 2010 I work with medium format (film) photography. She is interested in both documentary and art genres. In my projects, I explore personal and collective topics such as: personal relationships, family, types of housing and spaces, people's private lives and personal experiences. • Education and training: 2010 - "Basics of photography" course, photo school "Svetopis", Surgut. 2011 - "From basics to mastery" course, Academy of Photography, Saint-Petersburg. 2011 - 2013 - Department of photoreporters of Galperin, the Russian Union of Journalists, Saint-Petersburg. From 2014 A member of The Russian Union of Art Photographers • Exibitions: 2011 Moscow museum of biology of K. Timiryazev, photo contest "Water World of Russia", Moscow. 2011 IV International photo contest of Karl Bulla "Visible features of the era", Saint-Petersburg. 2012 Final exibition at the Department of photo reporters "54-th", Saint-Petersburg. 2013 Baltic Biennale of Photography. The 6th International contest of professional and amateur photography "Photomania-2013", Kaliningrad. 2013 Gallery "Art-Hall" by creative association of Petersburg photographers "Art-Confession", Vyborg. 2014 State Russian Museum. III Museum Binnale of contemporary Photography, Saint-Petersburg. • Publications: DODHO magazine Matryoshka dolls. • Сompetitions​: 2014 short list FotoVisura Grant; 2014 participant in the final exhibition of the photo contest Young photographers of Russia; 2014 Photographer of the Year and winner of the photo contest Polar Perspective.

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